Sunday, Sep 20

Tough Love and Purity

The text

1 Corinthians 5:1-13

Scripture

Matthew 18:21-22 • How many times must I forgive them? 21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” 22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”

Quote

“Issues called out by Paul in 1 Corinthians: Divisions and factions • 1:10–17; 3:1–9 Pride / arrogance • 4:6–8, 18–19 Sexual immorality • 5:1–13 Failure to deal with sin within the church • 5:2, 6, 12–13 Believers suing one another • 6:1–8 Sexual ethics / misuse of their bodies • 6:12–20 Confusion and conflict regarding marriage and singleness • 7:1–40 Using Christian freedom without regard for others • 8:1–13; 10:23–33 Idolatry / participation in pagan worship • 10:1–22 Self-centeredness at the Lord's Supper • 11:17–22 Disorder and competition regarding spiritual gifts • 12:1–31; 14:1–40 Failure to value one another as one body • 12:12–27 Love being displaced by spiritual performance • 13:1–13 Confusion/denial concerning resurrection • 15:1–58 Failure to participate in generosity / the collection • 16:1–4”

Scripture

Phillippians 3:4b-6 • Paul, Jew of Jews If someone else thinks they have reasons to put confidence in the flesh, I have more: 5 circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; in regard to the law, a Pharisee; 6 as for zeal, persecuting the church; as for righteousness based on the law, faultless.

Scripture

Ephesians 3:7-8 • I Paul, am less than the least  7 I became a servant of this gospel by the gift of God’s grace given me through the working of his power. 8 Although I am less than the least of all the Lord’s people, this grace was given me: to preach to the Gentiles the boundless riches of Christ,

Scripture

Romans 6:1-2 • We have died to sin 1 What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? 2 By no means! We are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer?

Scripture

Galatians 2:16 • Justified by faith not works 16 know that a person is not justified by the works of the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have put our faith in Christ Jesus that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by the works of the law, because by the works of the law no one will be justified.

Scripture

Acts 22:3 • Trained by Gamaliel 3 “I am a Jew, born in Tarsus of Cilicia, but brought up in this city (Jerusalem). I studied under Gamaliel and was thoroughly trained in
 the law of our
 ancestors. I was just
 as zealous for God as
any of you are today.”

Scripture

Acts 5:29-32 • We must obey God 29 Peter and the other apostles replied: “We must obey God rather than human beings! 30 The God of our ancestors raised Jesus from the dead—whom you killed by hanging him on a cross. 31 God exalted him to his own right hand as Prince and Savior that he might bring Israel to repentance and forgive their sins. 32 We are witnesses of these things, and so is the Holy Spirit, whom God has given to those who obey him.”

Scripture

But Gamaliel speaks up: Acts 5:33-40 • Gamaliel persuades the Sanhedrin Theudas Claimed to be somebody 400 men rallied to him He was killed All the followers dispersed Judas the Galilean Led a revolt at the time of the census He was killed Followers were scattered Therefore - in this moment - Jesus has been killed It will probably go as it did for these others It will fade and end

Scripture

Acts 7:54-60 • The Stoning of Stephen 54 When the members of the Sanhedrin heard this, they were furious and gnashed their teeth at him. 55 But Stephen, full of the Holy Spirit, looked up to heaven and saw the glory of God, and Jesus standing at the right hand of God. 56 “Look,” he said, “I see heaven open and the Son of Man standing at the right hand of God.” 57 At this they covered their ears and, yelling at the top of their voices, they all rushed at him, 58 dragged him out of the city and began to stone him. Meanwhile, the witnesses laid their coats at the feet of a young man named Saul. 59 While they were stoning him, Stephen prayed, “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.” 60 Then he fell on his knees and cried out, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” When he had said this, he fell asleep.

Scripture

Acts 8:1 • Saul’s approval of Stephen’s murder 1 And Saul approved of their killing him.

Scripture

1 Corinthians 15:9-11 • By the grace of God 9 For I am the least of the apostles and do not even deserve to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God. 10 But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them—yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me. 11 Whether, then, it is I or they, this is what we preach, and this is what you believed.

Dialogue

What is the impact of ignoring or denying the existence of past or current issues? Your own issues Other people’s issues

Dialogue

What is the impact of being paralyzed by the existence of past or current issues? Your own issues Other people’s issues

Scripture

Matthew 18:15-20 • Dealing With Sin in the Church 15 “If your brother or sister [fellow follower of Jesus] sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over. 16 But if they will not listen, take one or two others along, so that ‘every matter may be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses.’ 17 If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen even to the church, treat them as you would a pagan or a tax collector. 18 “Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. 19 “Again, truly I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything they ask for, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. 20 For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.”

Scripture

The next verses in Matthew 18 Matthew 18:21-22 • How many times must I forgive them? 21 Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” 22 Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”

Dialogue

What is the brilliance of Jesus’ process? What are some potential breakdowns? The process is very specific • Matthew 18:15-20 Go privately Talk to the person directly. Seek restoration If they listen, you have “won them over.” Bring 1–2 others If they don't listen, involve trusted people. Bring it to the church If they still refuse, involve the community. Create distance If they refuse even the church, relational separation becomes necessary. Trust the community Make the decision together, under Jesus’ authority. Keep Jesus at the center Gather and act in his name.

Dialogue

What does it take to relentlessly pursue restored relationships?

Scripture

1 Corinthians 5:1-13 • Immorality being celebrated 1 It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that even pagans do not tolerate: A man is sleeping with his father’s wife. 2 And you are proud! Shouldn’t you rather have gone into mourning and have put out of your fellowship the man who has been doing this?

Scripture

1 Corinthians 5:9-10 • Not a general neighbor directive  9 I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people— 10 not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world.

Scripture

1 Corinthians 5:6-7 • Call for renewal 6 Your boasting is not good. Don’t you know that a little yeast leavens the whole batch of dough? 7 Get rid of the old yeast, so that you may be a new unleavened batch—as you really are.

Scripture

Matthew 22:35-40 • The Greatest Commandment 35 One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this question: 36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” 37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”

Dialogue

What are some good reasons (whys) to be proactive in keeping the body of Christ healthy?

Dialogue

Pray for Corner Church to be a healthy Body of Christ.

Take it deeper

Carry the message through your week

Additional reading

  • 1 Corinthians 5
  • 1 Corinthians 6
  • Matthew 18
  • Romans 6
  • Galatians 6
  • 2 Corinthians 2
  • Ephesians 4

Questions to sit with

  1. Question 1

    Read Matthew 18:10–22.

  2. Question 2

    What is something in your life that requires regular attention to remain healthy?

  3. Question 3

    What makes it easier or harder to have an honest conversation with someone about a problem?

  4. Question 4

    What does Jesus’ process reveal about the value of the person, the relationship, and the wider community?

  5. Question 5

    What is the difference between ignoring someone’s issues and allowing those issues to define or disqualify them?

  6. Question 6

    What does it take to pursue restoration without ignoring harm, enabling unhealthy behavior, or giving up on the person?

  7. Question 7

    How are you challenged, focused, encouraged, and/or confused by this text?

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